Today I’ve been out helping my wife with some jobs at her work that require heavy lifting, a lot of bending over, and a fair amount of getting bulky objects […]
Marriage
Flibanserin: What Husbands Need to Know
Flibanserin has generated a lot of buzz in my Internet and social circles. As a guy who does a lot of work to revive the passion in sexless marriages, more […]
Stop Asking What You Did Wrong When Your Wife Hurts You
One thing that is hard about working with men who are dealing with a lot of conflict, either from their wife, or in the past from mothers, teachers, or other […]
Building a Good Infrastructure in Marriage
I’ve been having an interesting exchange with a member of my forum about whether I feel that I could sustain my no-porn position if my marriage became sexless. I wanted […]
Men are Defined by Actions, not Relationships
I write a lot about relationships and how to build good and healthy ones. In the past few years my work has focused heavily on building a good marriage. Many […]
Holding Manhood in Contempt: “Good,” “New,” & “Revolutionary” Men
I have recently re-read a fantastic article by Allison Tieman entitled “The One Good Man”, which first appeared on the now-defunct Genderratic and was recently republished on honeybadgerbrigade.com. As usual, […]
Ending Conflict & Building a Better Relationship with Your Wife (final thoughts)
Consciously or unconsciously, we choose the relationships we create with other people. We create them consciously when we decide that we want a particular kind of relationship and work to […]
Ending Conflict & Building a Better Relationship with Your Wife (pt. 9)
Often, the biggest obstacle between having a good and positive relationship with out wives is not our wives – it is ourselves. When we take other people’s behavior personally, we […]
Ending Conflict & Building a Better Relationship with Your Wife (pt. 7-b)
Take Care of Your Body The relationship between a man and his wife or girlfriend is a sexual one, and sexual relationships are primal. However intellectually developed we think we […]
Ending Conflict & Building a Better Relationship with Your Wife (pt. 7-a)
Theory is all well and fine, but this is an action-oriented weblog. So today I am going to give you direct advice on what you can do to both develop […]