After the Abuse: You Can Be a Victim or a Victor

A lot of the men who contact me are in the process of disentangling themselves from an abusive relationship. When intimate partners abuse men, physical violence is often a very […]

The Three Lies That Hold You in Place

As I was writing my last article I found myself thinking about some of the self-limiting beliefs I come across regularly that keep men in miserable jobs and toxic relationships. […]

"Lonely Sculpture of a Man in Mourning" by pixel2013

Man’s Greatest Virtue is Also His Greatest Weakness

One of the greatest virtues in the character of Men (on average) is their capacity for self-sacrifice in service to the things we care for and admire. A man who […]

Youth Football

Coaching for Character in Youth Sports (1/3)

I recently had a conversation with a client whose teenaged daughter was getting involved in a very competitive sports league.  He was worried about becoming “That Dad“…  The guy who […]

Resources I Love: Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck

Amy Alkon’s book Good Manners for Nice People who Sometims Say F*ck made me want to be a better human being.  That is quite a thing to say, but I don’t […]