The Magnetism of Outcome Independence
I have recently been working with a long-time client on one of my favourite topics: Charisma. That curious ability to charm, persuade, influence, and befriend others is surrounded by a […]
Respect
Sex is Overrated (pt. 1)
One of the things that my years of coaching men has proven to me again and again is that Sex has a proper place on a Man’s priority list – […]
Fare Thee Well, MMSL
Hello, readers, it has been quite awhile! Lots of changes have happened in my world as of late. My Son is one over one year old, he is happy, healthy, […]
What is the Point of Relationships?
An answer to why the toughest questions ever put to me: why bother getting into relationships, if you have to be self-reliant?
On Status
Regular reader and commenter MitchK pointed out a place where my last article could have used a lot more fleshing out: on the matter of status. On the one hand, […]
Get Your Balls Back
I spent my teens and twenties wandering around without my balls. This is not abnormal; most men wander around without their balls these days. We worry that we are going […]
Coaching For Character in Youth Sports (3/3)
Apologies for the late article: I have been seriously ill for the last two weeks. Many of the concepts that I have been exploring in these articles flow into one another. […]
Coaching for Character in Youth Sports (2/3)
Throughout this series of articles, I am discussing what both a parent and a coach can do to help a young athlete develop not just excellence in athletics, but excellence […]
Coaching for Character in Youth Sports (1/3)
I recently had a conversation with a client whose teenaged daughter was getting involved in a very competitive sports league. He was worried about becoming “That Dad“… The guy who […]
Resources I Love: Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck
Amy Alkon’s book Good Manners for Nice People who Sometims Say F*ck made me want to be a better human being. That is quite a thing to say, but I don’t […]