After the Abuse: You Can Be a Victim or a Victor
A lot of the men who contact me are in the process of disentangling themselves from an abusive relationship. When intimate partners abuse men, physical violence is often a very […]
Respect
Can This Marriage be Saved?
Recently I had a man get in touch whose marriage was in a very bad place. He gave me a rough outline of what was going on. His big question […]
Man’s Greatest Virtue is Also His Greatest Weakness
One of the greatest virtues in the character of Men (on average) is their capacity for self-sacrifice in service to the things we care for and admire. A man who […]
Year Seven
As of this week I have been operating The Wild Man Project for seven years. The dialogue around Men has changed a lot in that time. It has moved from […]
Human Interaction has Rhythms
Most of my week with my (20 month-old) son has been fantastic this week. He’s started to put words together to describe things that interest him (“bottle-water”, “blue car!”) Yesterday […]
The Magnetism of Outcome Independence
I have recently been working with a long-time client on one of my favourite topics: Charisma. That curious ability to charm, persuade, influence, and befriend others is surrounded by a […]
Sex is Overrated (pt. 1)
One of the things that my years of coaching men has proven to me again and again is that Sex has a proper place on a Man’s priority list – […]
Fare Thee Well, MMSL
Hello, readers, it has been quite awhile! Lots of changes have happened in my world as of late. My Son is one over one year old, he is happy, healthy, […]
What is the Point of Relationships?
An answer to why the toughest questions ever put to me: why bother getting into relationships, if you have to be self-reliant?
On Status
Regular reader and commenter MitchK pointed out a place where my last article could have used a lot more fleshing out: on the matter of status. On the one hand, […]