The Basics of Having a Good Marriage
The art of building a strong, happy marriage is not a great secret; if you know where to look there are quite a few people who can help you with […]
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Self Mastery
You are not your Body. You are not your Thoughts. You are not your Feelings. You are not your Job, your Status, your Roles, or your Relationships. You are not […]
Resources I Love: Hold on to Your N.U.T.S.
Helping men build healthy relationships has been a staple of my business for the last five years. I love working on partnerships, gay or straight, because they let me build […]
The Greatest Myth of the Male Sex Drive
In running the 90-day Porn Detox, I occasionally have to help men work through a period where their sex drive tanks. It often frightens them – they worry that there […]
Changes in the Status of Circumcision in the Medical Community
This society neither cares for nor offers full dignity or respect to either Men nor Women. The slow movement to a Dignity Society, where we treat everyone with respect, forebearance, […]
Flibanserin: What Husbands Need to Know
Flibanserin has generated a lot of buzz in my Internet and social circles. As a guy who does a lot of work to revive the passion in sexless marriages, more […]
Resources I Love: Taming Your Gremlin
I’ve decided to start adding more book reviews to my website, because I find recommending helpful books is often both the best way to make headway early in coaching – […]
Building a Good Infrastructure in Marriage
I’ve been having an interesting exchange with a member of my forum about whether I feel that I could sustain my no-porn position if my marriage became sexless. I wanted […]
Ending Conflict & Building a Better Relationship with Your Wife (pt. 5)
When it comes to building the healthiest possible relationship with your wife the most important there are a number of basic principles that apply woven into this work that I […]
Ending Conflict & Building a Better Relationship with Your Wife (pt.4)
For the sake of argument, I am going to go forward here with a focus on marital turmoil that comes from feelings of insecurity that creates either fitness or loyalty […]