After the Abuse: You Can Be a Victim or a Victor

A lot of the men who contact me are in the process of disentangling themselves from an abusive relationship. When intimate partners abuse men, physical violence is often a very […]

The Three Lies That Hold You in Place

As I was writing my last article I found myself thinking about some of the self-limiting beliefs I come across regularly that keep men in miserable jobs and toxic relationships. […]

"Dawn" by Stain Marylight

The Seven Levels of Awakened Masculinity

I have spent the last seven years trying to put simply what I have earned about being a happier, healthier man in plain terms and simple steps. I’ve looked at a […]

Resources I Love: Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck

Amy Alkon’s book Good Manners for Nice People who Sometims Say F*ck made me want to be a better human being.  That is quite a thing to say, but I don’t […]

Immanuel Kant

Reason is the Cure for the Gender War

I hate the Gender War.  It is possibly the most thoughtless, banal, and malignant thing in the Western world today.  It is sadly also something that I get some exposure […]